Sorry, My Name is of No Consequence,
I think the WT knows exactly what it is doing, exactly what people figure out they will lose (friends, husbands, wives, children, aunts, uncles, grandmothers, cousins) and what damage it will cause, and the WT should be held liable.
That is why many cannot leave.
As a wife, I think 'what if I told my husband that I didn't think the WT was chosen in 1919'? (not even for any other reason than 'the WT gives such a stupid reason'.. let alone the 607 thing) We would always argue/discuss doctrine... I can still remember driving down a dirt road 'while vacation pioneering' explaining to him why I thought 'Jesus was our mediator'.... using scriptures, and it was ok, we always have 'debated'.
But, when it came down to the bottom line, he was my head, and he read it from the WT, and that was that.
If I had been the 'head of the house' or if my HUSBAND decided "yep, that's wrong" it may have changed earlier for us.
As it was, we both left on the overlapping anointed/ 607 thing in 2011.